Advent Reading: The Imitation of Christ #4
DO NOT yield to every impulse and suggestion but consider things carefully and patiently in the light of God's will. For very often, sad to say, we are so weak that we believe and speak evil of others rather than good. Perfect men, however, do not readily believe every talebearer, because they know that human frailty is prone to evil and is likely to appear in speech.
Thomas a Kempis, The Imitation of Christ, Book 1, Chapter 4